Context: I am never surprised yet always amazed by the topics my church leaders select for me to blog about. At times, I am equally frustrated by the process because I submit my blog for review before the sermon is even preached leaving me without context - yet as always God is faithful and he connects the dots. Every year, I pray for a word from God to carry me through. A word that will help me grow and draw nearer to Him and those I love. In the past, I have had words like, commit, rest, trust, rely. This year my word is discipline (grrr!!) so I was grateful when I learned that our church would be teaching on spiritual disciplines - I was excited to have the opportunity to narrow down the field of spiritual discipline. As part of my research I read the following article; http://www.desiringgod.org/interviews/what-are-spiritual-disciplines
On Sunday mornings, I am also learning about the difference between disciplines of abstinence and those of engagement. Personally, prayer, service and worship are more appealing than frugality, sacrifice and fasting however, it appears that for 2016 I will be working on sacrifice and submission for the greater good of God's kingdom -that's a blog for another day! In the meantime, I leave you with my personal experience with chastity, sacrifice and submission!
Chastity, Sacrifice and Submission are disciplines of
abstinence which require dying to self.
I often cringe at the mention of the word discipline. I feel
uncomfortable at the thought of doing something that will require a constant
effort and my pride gets in the way often refusing to entertain daily practices
which will in the end be of great benefit to my relationship with Jesus and
others. Despite knowing that “I am fearfully and wonderfully made” and that I
am not “hidden from God” (Psalm 139), “the passions of my flesh, wage war
against my soul” (1 Peter 2:11).
I admit, there are times, that I am double-minded and waiver
between God’s commands and my desires. Feelings become thoughts, thoughts
become temptations, temptations become actions and actions become sin which
separates me from God. This thread is possible because I can easily deceive myself;
manipulating my thoughts to distort the truth and obtain what it is I want in
that moment.
We're all searching for something…We're all searching for someone…We're
all longing for love… It is this very thread that has deceived me in the past
and led me to sexual immorality. In December 2004, following separation from my
husband, I was extremely lonely and found myself looking for love in all the
wrong places. I tended to pursue what/who it is I wanted, no matter the cost or
consequences to others. As a result, I embraced a new intimate relationship and
wasn’t alone for Christmas. Yet I still wasn’t fulfilled and was hurt in the
end. Approximately two years later, I met someone through an online dating site
and engaged in another intimate relationship which in the end resulted in
unfulfilled comparisons to previous relationships, unmet expectations and pain.
In 2008, my tactics hadn’t changed. I was lonely and longing for love and
sought out yet another intimate relationship…this time I questioned my motives
and whether or not this was God's will. Was I being righteous and obedient or
just living in the flesh? This thread had a hold on me; it was the enemy's way
of reminding me of words spoken over me in my childhood "you are nothing
without a man by your side". We only had a couple of dates when God
revealed to me that this was not His will...I already knew it in my spirit
because I did not have peace about it. However, in the flesh we can manage to
deceive even ourselves. I had to cut this thread that bound me once and for
all.
As I was growing with Jesus and others, it was easy enough
to find encouragement and accountability. I was reminded to Guard my heart
"For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries,
fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders.” (Matthew 15:19). Meditate on
God’s truth “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful.
“All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything...The
body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the
body…But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. Flee from
sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but
the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. Or do you not know that
your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?
You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your
body.” 1 Corinthians 6:12-20. And, Submit to God "Those who are
dominated by the sinful nature think about sinful things, but those who are
controlled by the Holy Spirit think about things that please the Spirit. So
letting your sinful nature control your mind leads to death. But letting the
Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace. For the sinful nature is
always hostile to God. It never did obey Gods laws, and it never will. That’s
why those who are still under the control of their sinful nature can never
please God" (Romans 8:5-8).
Today, as a result of resisting, redirecting, and renewing
my thoughts as well as rehearsing appropriate responses, and; seeking God first
by guarding my heart, meditating on His word and submitting to Him, I find
myself, in a Christ-centered, committed, caring marriage. Praise the Lord,
Jesus and the Holy Spirit for not giving up on me and making it a moment by
moment process weaving the best threads ever into my life!
Now I know that I know that, Only One can fill my longing…Only
One can satisfy…His name is Jesus...The thread of everlasting hope!
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